Actually, I loved that particular bit of “message” about Lane in Gilmore Girls. *Of course* the sex was horrible on her honeymoon. How could it be anything else than bad? The first time is painful and awkward, and that’s not what you want with the person that you are about to share your entire life with.
My advice to Lane would be: Get the bad sex out of the way with a couple of frogs, than you can enjoy sex as it should be with your prince! 🙂